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But despite the aforementioned shortcomings, my love for this beautiful damsel remains green. And this has always compelled me to beg, persuade, cajole and advise her to change, but to no avail. Now, I want to call it quits with her before it is too late. But I fear she might feel used since I deflowered her. Yet, If I continue and end up not marrying her, she may curse me.

E.E.A., Calabar South, Cross River State.

There are many reasons why a man feels this-is-the-girl-and-I-want-her. On the other hand, there are many reasons why a man feels she-is-not-my-kind-of-girl. If you have attempted to make her fit into the picture of your future and she is not adhering, the choice is yours to make. It is either you tell her now and move ahead to get someone else or you remain enchanted by her beauty and end up wasting your time and hers.